Intro:
This is a spin on what I experience in Life After Dakota.
(To get the full on story of how I lost my 15 year old daughter look at some of the earlier posts)
I hope that you enjoy the NEW SPIN with Focus Positive.
The writing style will change based off of my experience, my feeling, my calling, my passion and of course anything that I have learned.

I encourage you to read my past posts; there’s good “stuff” – straight forward, raw emotion. That is the kid of person that you will shortly find me to be – I am open and I am honest and its raw, because life is just that.
I hope that you find entertainment, because if not I should pack it in right now – what are real life struggles if there isn’t some fun mixed in it somewhere right? Who wants to read depressing lulls? Not I, there is enough of that everywhere we look. Besides, the Spin Is called: Focus Positive…. no false advertisement here.

I hope that you find encouragement if you are facing something like this, or other challenges that have you struggling to create a smile through the dark agony we sometimes have to face: in the morning, the wee hours of dawn, the sudden quiet and hot blackness of night or about 2 O’clock in the afternoon when it blasts you again in the middle of a big important meeting with VIP Customers from Japan. I want to offer up a different perspective. I don’t want to bring the same self help, healthy, looking from the outside in, kind of message. I am in the trenches, I am right next to you, going through my own personal hell, looking to heal and searching for the light. The sky is black ladies and gentleman and the rain is pouring down. Lightning flashes unexpectedly and just when you think you can’t breathe through it anymore… there is a break, a clearing in the clouds and a warmth of the purest of pure love comes and envelopes your whole being. You would stay here in this perimeter of safety and protection, but like any good soldier we are all here on a set mission and a set purpose. Sometimes part of the fight is going through one hell of a storm, but your commander will never leave you nor forsake you – and I reiterate, I am in the trenches too, with you.
I hope that you pass this on (God forbid), to someone  you know that may need to read a site like this one.

Peace